Hello, I am having a dilemma and hoping you wise members of this forum can help out.
We want to buy a house. yes, I know, bad time, I love this site and agree with most discussed here.
We found a house where monthly PITI fits at .28 gross monthly. We have NO debt so the back ratio is fine too. We currently save 10% of gross monthly after rent and all other expenses (10% doesn't count "automatic" investments like 401K and 529 plans).
We almost bought the house, until my wife pulled the plug -- even though the new payment fits the .28 ratio, the jump from rent to PITI would wipe our 10% savings to 0%.
At this point I am stumped -- what is the expectation of disposable income (i.e. potential savings) if PITI fits the 28% bill? Either that ratio is wrong, or our cash flow is somehow off...I can't tell which one it is but the possibility of not growing savings bothers me...I am not maxing out the 401K, and while I could of course reduce the contributions I'm worried that that's not the right solution
Insights appreciated.