by S-Crow » Mon May 12, 2008 9:13 am
Big Mike,
I empathize. Really do. Don't know all details but from what I gather in this brief thread, and knowing what I know being that our escrow office closes transactions for a living, I sense that it would be VERY difficult to qualify to purchase another home in a different location, unless they are putting down a substantial amount, perhaps even co-borrowing assistance, if feasible. But, that is if the idea is to purchase---why do they have to make a purchase?
A couple suggestions:
1) Rent a home in the area they are moving to first--get grounded and settled.
2) Work like heck to get the existing house here in our area rented.
3) Even if it does not rent (I wouldn't know) for the full PITI, our housing location in the Seattle Metro area MAY fare substantially better in a correction than in other areas across the country. So, a little negative cash flow may be diminished by our area's potential for resiliency and recovery, all of which is unknowable. It is a risk, but it may be more palatable.
4) It is not unusual for families to assist other members in physical or financial distress. Perhaps your home is owned free and clear. Consider purchasing their home either outright or as a silent short sale. You may be able to purchase the house for less than the oustanding mortgages which may help to reduce both the family member's burden and yours. The downside is that you are now a landlord which may or may not be what your wish for.
In many short sale cases, lenders will require that the existing borrower zero out, meaning they cannot get any cash back. Further, they may require tax returns or other documentation showing a "household balance sheet," if you will (which will paint a picture of financial distress or not.) So, trying to do #4 may or may not fly with the existing lender if a borrower shows subtantial other assets and has no history of late payments.
That being said, trying is better than doing nothing.
-S-Crow